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Where I am   
09:37pm 05/09/2005
 
mood: accomplished
By the way, if you were wondering where I'd got to, I'm now blogging at LP.
 
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Discussion on Love, Sex and Disability   
11:00pm 07/04/2005
  http://larvatusprodeo.redrag.net/2005/04/07/disability-love-and-sexuality/  
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"Voluntary amputation"   
04:42pm 07/04/2005
  There's an interesting discussion of this bizarre phenomenon which as an involuntary amputee, I have strong and mixed emotions about, at LP:

http://larvatusprodeo.redrag.net/2005/04/06/this-fleshy-object-is-not-part-of-me/

The site's down at the moment but have a look later if yr interested.
 
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Hello? Hello?   
12:36pm 18/03/2005
 
mood: indescribable
this is weird - http://yellowvinyl.ozewriters.com/

did someone set me up a free blog and they were going to give it to me as a present?

please explain, mystery person!

update mystery solved - more later...
 
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Larvatus Prodeo   
12:16pm 18/03/2005
 
mood: geeky
having decamped from Troppo, Mark has a new blog up and running.

go visit -

http://larvatusprodeo.redrag.net
 
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More on the out there amputee grrrls theme...   
10:32pm 13/03/2005
 
mood: excited
Amina Munster is my angel:

http://www.bmezine.com/news/steppingback/20050209.html
 
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One to watch out for...   
04:20pm 11/03/2005
 
mood: artistic
Double below knee amputee Amy Purdy, 24 stars in What's Bugging Seth, a film due out this year:

http://www.activelivingmagazine.com/artman/publish/printer_80.shtml

http://www.orthopedictechreview.com/issues/jan05/news.htm
 
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And while I'm at it...   
12:25am 10/03/2005
 
mood: exhausted
you should read suzoz' post about kids' reaction to her child's having two mums:

http://susoz.typepad.com/personal_political/2005/03/two_mums.html

here is what I wrote at suzoz' place about this issue:

"all this has been very disturbing indeed, suzoz.

as a lesbian-identified queer woman who'd like to have kids, I'm starting to get a sense of just how horrible the environment for them might be at times. it's really lamentable. I'm an American citizen, and moved back to Australia in part because I thought that on the whole this was a more tolerant and progressive society. now I'm starting to question that assumption.

I get tired of fighting - and tired of being accused of being strident - the insult thrown at uppity women everywhere - and of special pleading. but I remember women like Rosa Parks who changed so much simply because she was tired. sometimes in our most exhausted moments we can speak clearly to the truth of ourselves, and that gives me some hope.

a belated happy IWD to you :)"
 
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More on schools and queer folk   
12:23am 10/03/2005
 
mood: ecstatic
Rob Corr takes up one of my arguments, and poses a challenge which has a lot of validity to those who argue that teachers should stay in the closet:

http://robert.redrag.net/2005/03/09/analogy/
 
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"Heteronormativity and the Closet"   
10:51pm 09/03/2005
 
mood: shocked
recently, there's been some extremely vigorous debate about an incident in a Melbourne school where a student teacher had her internship terminated by the Principal because she truthfully answered students' questions about her partner. The student teacher was a lesbian and the students had asked her who the woman who picked her up after school was.

this is simply outrageous.

it's also stunned me that sundry people in the blogosphere, normally people I think of as being rational, have been arguing that this was right. see these threads on Troppo:

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008681.html

(where Mark initially condemned the school)

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008684.html

(Sophie chimes in and confuses the issue)

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008692.html

(Ken thinks parents' moral "values" will be offended)

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008695.html

(Mark posts a few links and supports positive education about queer sexualities in schools)

what astounded me was the over homophobia from some of the commenters. maybe I shouldn't have been surprised, but it's a sorry reflection on Australia as a civil and tolerant society!

but I was greatly heartened to see Mark post an excellent analysis of why heteronormativity and the closet are very very damaging institutions:

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008697.html

it's one of the best pieces on the topic I've read.
 
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Doctor's Advice   
05:53pm 05/03/2005
 
mood: calm
I went to see the specialist yesterday to get the lowdown on what's happening. the good news is that the range of treatments, survival rates, and strategies for avoiding amputation is much bigger than when I was 14 and went through this the last time round. the bad news (personally in terms of how I'll feel) is that chemo is now thought to be effective - am looking at six to nine months of same. I might do a pre-emptive strike and go for the bald look now! half way through the chemo they operate. it's at that point, depending on whether the tumour's shrunk that they decide whether to excise part of the bone and replace it either with a bone graft or a prosthetic bone replacement or to amputate. if the latter is necessary, the location of the tumour means I'd likely get to keep my knee - which would be a big advantage in mobility options - not easy for a double above-knee amputee to walk on prosthetics. but hopefully it won't come to that. at the moment, I'm in a wheelchair which I am not enjoying.

anyway, I feel a lot better knowing what's in store. I was frantically imagining I'd be in surgery next week to lop off my leg. it won't be easy, but, phew...
 
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What's going on with me   
10:45pm 04/03/2005
 
mood: grateful
Thx everyone for yr very kind words :)

More info about my current scary medical issues here:

http://troppoarmadillo.ubersportingpundit.com/archives/008653.html
 
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Why I've Been Away   
11:56pm 03/03/2005
 
mood: anxious
I have cancer again. This is not good.
 
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reading Dostoyevsky in the bath   
03:41pm 03/02/2005
 
mood: relaxed
is fun! if I get a chance later on, I'll write something about "The Grand Inquisitor"
 
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Young Conservatives   
03:32pm 03/02/2005
 
mood: angry
from the home of "Conservative Homosex" in deepest Melbourne comes this post celebrating the rise of hard right neo-fascist parties in Europe. how can someone be so gay and so wrong?
 
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I've been googled   
12:57pm 27/01/2005
 
mood: indescribable
...just found out courtesy of the feisty and always provocative miss piss from piss'n'vinegar (best best Tasmanian blog, in case you didn't know)that someone's been googling me. wow, does this mean I have a cyberstalker?
 
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She's back!   
12:55pm 27/01/2005
 
mood: rejuvenated
...from a very relaxing and revivifying visit to the mountains. sore leg, though, from all the bushwalking. nothing beats repeated spas with a bottle of champers, spending hours and hours reading, and swimming in a rainforest lagoon...
 
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Weather   
01:18pm 17/01/2005
 
mood: hot
the weather in Brisbane at the moment is horrendous. hot and humid and overcast now meaning it won't get much cooler at night. I've just popped home to get some stuff - a friend and I went up to the mountains to visit another friend and she's kindly invited us to stay a few days...
 
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Dating update part 2   
11:27pm 14/01/2005
 
mood: chipper
in response to an email query, yes, I'm still interested in dating boys :) and/or girls. and/or Julia Gillard.
 
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Dating update   
01:21pm 14/01/2005
 
mood: horny
maybe I should try writing to DarkAngel27 on rsvp.com.au? not only does she look hot in her black bikini, this is a priceless sentence for a cyberdating profile:

ultimate goal is too show all others the kindness and love in everyone despite their ugly, evil insensitive appearance.

you go girl!
 
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